And we also know that you are so excited about any events that are related to the wedding such as your bachelorette party. This is a major event that will celebrate your transition from a single woman to a married woman. And you certainly want all your best people at this party, especially your friends and bridesmaids.
You have already prepared gorgeous dresses for social events and are excited to have a few days of fun. But one thing keeps looming over your head, what should you answer to your mom who has asked you if she can come to the bachelorette party or not.
Now, let us tell you, there is no right or wrong answer to this. It entirely depends on your dynamic with your mother. If you feel extremely comfortable and your bridesmaids agree, you can call your mother to your bachelorette party. However, if you don’t want your mom to be there, you need to be upfront and honest with her.
No matter the type of bachelorette party you are organizing whether it is all night club hopping, heavydrinking, or sex-toy gifting nights, if you don’t feel comfortable having your mother, you can say “No”.
But what can you do alternatively? Here’s our advice.
To organize the two-part bachelorette party, utilize the day and the night. During the day, you can do some family-friendly activities such as a spa day, a cooking class, and such. You can include your mom and any other underage family member you want to include.
In the night, go for a parent-free night of bachelorette party. Enjoy with your girlfriends and bridesmaids without the pressure of having your mother.
This creates a win-win situation for you and your mother. You can enjoy your bachelorette party and your mother also feels a part of the bridal gang.
Choose some beautiful and elegant social dresses for the mother-daughter
dinner date and book reservations at your mother’s favorite restaurant. Enjoy some awesome food and each other’s company for the night. Your mother will feel content that she spent the much-needed time with her daughter before she sets off on her new journey.
It is okay to say “no” to your mother to come to your bachelorette party. However, there are other ideas that you can execute to keep your mother happy too.
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